Signals that he is into you

Okay I got some comments on the last post, but i need to know what you think. The materials i will continue give you here are products of years of research; sociological and medical, whenever the case requires- and hey, i am a bloke who has had my fair share…okay a little more than my fair share of female company (and i am not bragging!). I am in love now so I know how it feels.

Now if my recommendations worked the last time, here is a small follow-up. But remember, guys are not machines, there is no ‘do-it-all instructions manual. Every thing said here is true but may vary in degree from bloke to bloke.

When a bloke kisses a girl, she knows what it means; when he stares hard into her eyes, she understands exactly where he’s going. But what about those small subtle actions that can indicate that the bloke is her man, and not just every girl’s man; the kind of actions that gives a girl the confidence to take him home to mama? Reading a man’s body language is not as difficult as it seems, if you know what to look out for. So ladies, the big question is – do you know what your bloke’s actions are secretly telling you?

WHEN HE’S WITH FRFIENDS

This is the best time to test his true feelings for you. Ladies, if I were you I wouldn’t shrug off anything he does as ‘just the usual’ because everything counts. If he puts his arm around your waist, it simply means he’s telling the lads “she’s all mine, so back off!” an arm over your shoulder shows a deep desire to take care of you and to protect you. If you’re sitting or standing and your hips are touching, take it from me ladies; he definitely wants you in his life.

WHEN HE’S WATCHING TV

If you can just tear your eyes away from ‘Paloma’ or any of those legion of ridiculous Latin American/ Mexican soap operas for a moment to check out his hand movements, you’ll notice some real drama. This is because his concentration is on the TV and not on what he’s doing. If without thinking he interlocks his fingers with yours, he’s subconsciously saying that he wants to be emotionally interconnected with you. An even better sign is if he takes your hand and pulls it close to him – it’s a protective gesture.

WHEN YOU GO BACK TO HIS PLACE

Now this is the interesting part. I’m talking candles, dinner, slow music and hopefully some body contact – if you know what I mean. But the truth is that it’s far more telling if he hasn’t made much of an effort. And if you’re more than a little pissed that his bedroom is a mess, it actually shows two things: firstly that he’s a genuine bloke who’s not playing games and who’s not pretending, and secondly, that he’s comfortable around you… okay he might also be a slob, but he’s totally in to you though.

WHEN YOU’RE OUT TO DINNER

Stop checking out the waiter’s butt, and check out what his eating habits say about his feelings. If he starts moving plates and glasses around, it’s a sign he’s breaking down the barriers between you. Also, when a bloke fancies you, blood rushes to certain parts of his body (and I’m not just talking about that part!) including his lips. If he’s sipping his drink and touching his lips very often, it’s a clear sign he’s into you. Finally a bloke who rolls up his sleeve, or loosens his tie isn’t just uncomfortable with the air-conditioning – he wants to get you into the bedroom.

WHEN HE’S SHOPPING

Make no mistakes ladies; his feelings for you aren’t equal to the number of presents he buys you (that’s just a bonus). Keep an eye on his footwork when you hit the shops together. If he’s mirroring your pace and you’re both stepping in sync, it’s a sign of compatibility. He may not know it, but his body is telling you he’s in tune with you.

nuff said… for now